Help!

Dear all, my current contract will expire in August. My handset is a Samsung j5 2016. It's beginning to have a life of its own! Im now thinking of buying a handset outright. I'm torn between the Honor 9 lite, Mate 10 lite or the p20 lite. Just when I think I've made my choice I read another review! What I'm after is some good honest opinions - both good and bad - as to what it's like using these phones on a day to day basis. Reviews are a good guide, but hands on experience is the best.
So, thank you in advance for any and all advice